Forty-seven years of marriage can provide a wealth of knowledge and insight, especially when that marriage has been built on biblical principles. Drawing from that rich experience, Crawford and Karen Loritts have written a new book entitled, Your Marriage Today … And Tomorrow. The book emphasizes creating marriages that are so strong today that they give endurance to marriages tomorrow, in the next generation and beyond.

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Seeing the Big Picture

Your Marriage Today focuses on the underlying principles of a successful marriage. Crawford acknowledges that he is the “big picture” person in his marriage while his wife is better at the details. Although the book is co-authored by both Crawford and Karen, it is written in Crawford’s conversational voice, and the material reflects his “big picture” perspective.legacy

The instruction and insights which the Loritts share are excellent. Their advice is solidly biblical, full of wisdom, and honoring to both husbands and wives. I think readers will be encouraged to see how God has beautifully “knit together” a man and woman from very different backgrounds.

Creating Your Legacy

Crawford and Karen are aware that each marriage leaves a legacy, one that can be painfully destructive or wonderfully life-giving.  The Loritts challenge us to think beyond our present moment of busyness. They caution us to be mindful of the long-term consequences of our marital behavior. Through the choices we make in our marriages, we create a profound impact in the lives of those around us and those who follow us.

How we need this counsel!

In our culture, marriages are trashed and replaced as if they were temporary jobs, subject to our personal whims, instead of high callings that God has placed on our lives. Marriage is God-ordained, designed to be God-reflecting and gospel-illustrating. Before we start working out the details of our marriages, we all need to consider the important legacy we are creating.

Whether our marriages last or not, our legacies will.

When Your Spouse Isn’t Working with You

In this book, the Loritts address the husband and wife who are working together to strengthen their relationship and legacy. But what if your spouse is not working with you? What if your spouse is not helping to create a legacy of blessing?

Don’t be discouraged! You can still give your children (and a watching world) a fantastic legacy.

Even when your marriage isn’t healthy, you can be healthy as a spouse, leaning on God to meet your every need. You can give your children the legacy of a promise-keeping parent. When you honor your vows, you give others hope and even confidence that there is a promise-keeping, trustworthy God.

You give your family a wonderful legacy when you model trusting God despite difficult circumstances. What is more valuable than that?  You can be living proof that God Himself is the Giver of life and joy.

You can teach your children how to handle disappointments by handing those hurts to God and allowing Him to turn ashes into beauty. What a rich legacy that is! Perhaps most importantly, you can demonstrate how to forgive. That priceless gift will bless your children and their children for the rest of their lives.

Feeding Your Marriage

The Loritts paint a broad picture of the forest, but they do not ignore the trees. They do include some practical advice for the day-by-day work of strengthening marriages. For example, they encourage us to “feed” our marriages by “making consistent, heart-nourishing deposits” in the lives of our spouses (58).  They list six specific ways to do that:

  1. Regularly read the Bible as a couple.
  2. Pray together every day.
  3. Lighten each other’s load.
  4. Identify what refreshes your spouse.
  5. Serve together.
  6. Spend regular, uninterrupted time together. … Carve out some time each evening to touch base with each other. Schedule two or three weekends a year to get away as a couple to talk and connect on a deeper level. (59)

That is an excellent list! How many of these habits do you have?

I encourage you to choose one and start practicing it this evening. It will bless you “today … and tomorrow.”

Book Giveaway

Moody Publishers is providing a complimentary copy of Your Marriage Today … And Tomorrow. If you would like to enter the drawing to receive this book, simply leave a comment below by July 23, 2018. I will notify the winner on July 24, and you will receive a paperback copy in the mail.

Blessings to you!
Tami

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16 Comments

Amy · July 22, 2018 at 3:11 am

Wow – would I like a copy of this book. Thanks for your post and your generosity.

    Tami · July 23, 2018 at 5:28 pm

    Thank you, Amy. You are entered in the drawing!

S. B. Obwocha · July 19, 2018 at 5:34 am

I would like to enter into the drawing to receive a copy of Your marriage today and tomorrow. Thanks and may God richly bless you

    Tami · July 19, 2018 at 1:24 pm

    You are entered! Thank you, and blessings to you, too!

Melissa Coppola · July 18, 2018 at 9:07 pm

Your ministry continues to encourage my walk with the Lord & my family. The Thursday prayertime is scheduled every week for me & always lifts my spirit…sometimes in conviction & other times in reaffirming the Lord’s working in my life. God bless you, Tami!

    Tami · July 18, 2018 at 10:13 pm

    You are a faithful strength to the Body, Melissa, and a great encouragement to me. Blessings to you and your precious family!

Tamika Williams · July 18, 2018 at 5:52 pm

Thanks for all the informative information that you guys share. Please include me in the entry for the drawin

    Tami · July 18, 2018 at 7:48 pm

    Thank you, Tamika. You are in the drawing! :)

    Tami · July 24, 2018 at 5:25 pm

    Congratulations, Tamika–you are the winner! Please check your email for a message from me.

      Tamika Williams · July 24, 2018 at 7:29 pm

      Thank you soooooo much Tami☺️

Sydney Gary · July 18, 2018 at 5:17 pm

I would like to enter the book give away for Your Marriage Today and Tomorrow.

    Tami · July 18, 2018 at 5:21 pm

    Thank you for entering!

Elaine · July 18, 2018 at 4:31 pm

I aways appreciate the godly, encouraging counsel that you consistently share, Tami! God bless you.

    Tami · July 18, 2018 at 4:37 pm

    That is what I want to say to you, Elaine! Thank you, and blessings to you.

Candi Hutchison · July 18, 2018 at 2:52 pm

I would like to enter the book give away for Your marriage today and tomorrow.

    Tami · July 18, 2018 at 3:58 pm

    Thank you, Candi. Blessings to you and your family!

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